It would seem some on here confuse foreplay with intercourse. I for one like the whole thing to last a few hours when there is time for it. My wife prefers to keep things under one hour from first start (of foreplay) to when she is finished which rarely lasts over an hour or she starts feeling like she is wasting time. My wife is a workaholic even with her free time.

Many women, even those who think they understand sex and men, don’t realize that although they may require more time to warm up men do not and once you touch us intimately we are there if we find you sexually attractive It’s not personal.

Averaging out once most people are fully aroused the time from intercourse to completion is about the same if both are properly aroused. The problem is men don’t realize how to keep you from getting him to that point too fast and women get too active on him before allowing themselves to be equally aroused. Men seem faster because once you start on our penis, you’ve in essence started sex, where women may want more emotional engagement and touching they often go for the penis too early and seem not to understand why he is getting off too early. Want you man to last longer, take it easy on how and when you touch him and hold off working his penis until your more aroused. It will both drive him crazy and help him “last” longer to match up better with however long you need to warm up.